Bee’s Wisdom Hive – In the image of MY FATHER

Sis, can I drop some words into your spirit? We as women are powerful when we are on one accord and standing in God’s presence and His mission and call on our lives. That is when we are truly validated as the daughter He has called us to be…then and ONLY THEN are WE a true Queen.

Disclaimer: I am by no means an expert on this particular subject but I am going to share what was given to me and prayerfully it will ignite into YOU a flame of change. My spirit has been heavy the past few weeks concerning this particular topic and my dream last night/early this am speaks to these issues as well. Sis, you can agree or choose to disagree but I am giving you what was given to me – – information concerning US (women) that we were made in the image (when we were taken from Adam) of OUR Father (God).

Sis, have you ever noticed that overall men don’t typically expose themselves on social media? I’m not referring to modeling or body-building or television. I’m referring to dating sites, FB and or Twitter. Yes, I know there are some bro’s who expose themselves and will willingly send you those ‘special pics’ of certain erogenous body parts. The word I used was OVERALL because it’s not bound to happen. Take a quick look at those you are connected to, the bro is typically in a suit or dressed to show his ability to look mac-daddy with some swag (smile). Now, take a look at the women to whom you are connected.

It is interesting to me that ever since I was a young girl I always saw the components and concepts of how men and women were different. I’m not referring to our anatomy but more so our spiritual composition. I remember a time when the girls were being chased up and down the street. Sis, the bro’s were pursuing. However, sigh; typically now it is the other way around, it is US WHO ARE PURSUING THE MEN. Sis, were you aware that after the fall of mankind that men were never told their desire would be toward us? But we were told that OUR desire would be toward our husband and he would be the head? I’m trying to keep this simple thus we might have to have a Part II discussion later.

Last night in my dream I was in a particular location, a building adjacent to a church. A woman was doing my hair and make-up. I guess she felt the need for me to look like her. She is the type of woman who puts herself out there to draw attention. Honestly, I don’t know if she has even checked herself or is aware of her personal portrayal. She is in ministry yet I see a spirit of seduction on her. Anyway back to the point – – I had to give you the lay-up of the dream. As she is ‘doing me over,’ I see some women approaching the building. They are dressed up but there is a weird accessory in their hand. They have paint brushes with pink paint and begin to paint the outside of the church and the building of my make-up session. If I recall correctly it is supposed to be a surprise for the pastor as I was told by my make-up artist. Hmm…can you say CONTROL? Fast forwarding to the end of the dream, I looked cute, but I realized my hair had been cut without my knowledge. How many times have you met a sis that meant well but moved in a direction WITHOUT PERMISSION?

Hang in there with me a few more moments; I do have a couple of points to convey.

To summarize the previous paragraphs I spoke of  above let’s recap: Exposure , Differential Composition, Pursuit, and the Spirit of Control (our pursuit of men is also included).

  • Exposure. Sis, I have been watching US expose ourselves regularly on social media. Hmm, I’m NOT just speaking of models, professional porn-stars and others who use media to jump-start their career. I’m referring to home-maker Suzy Q, Sis. May from down the block and Mother Jane from ABC Street. Have YOU NOTICED US? For example, we take pictures that are on display of us ‘backing it up’, ‘our legs and feet (shot on a downward angle that doesn’t expose our v-jay but we might as well as to what and how it is suggested)’, ‘sexy lip poses’, ‘drawing attention to our hair or eyes’, ‘the come hither sexy bedroom look/eyes’, ‘exposing the ladies/milk jugs’, and the list goes on. If we are made in the IMAGE OF OUR FATHER then ask YOURSELF why do YOU feel the NEED to EXPOSE yourself like that? Do you think it will draw the attention of a man who wishes to marry you? Are you looking to be HIS booty call? He’s not putting himself out there so why are YOU? Please be aware I’m NOT dealing with the bro’s right now, this is about US and our actions or choices to be co-dependents of unhealthiness and more so forgetting WHO we belong to and WHO DESIGNED us. When I see my children acting contrary to what they were taught, trust a sis it becomes a major concern for they are MY CHILDREN and they represent me!
  • Differential Composition. We were designed to be a helpmeet and every part of our body is desirable by a man somewhere on this living earth unless he plays for the other team. My point is sis, men want sex, men desire sex, but ultimately it is YOUR choice as to what or how you present yourselves and allow him into your atmosphere.  Sis, determine your value of worth. Now mind you I do understand many of us have been hurt, molested, raped, etc and think our value of OUR worth is between OUR legs, a lick of our breast, a stroke of our thigh. My Love, it is NOT! I urge you to seek your healing to understand that YOU WERE FEARFULLY AND LOVINGLY MADE (AND TAKEN FROM A MAN) IN OUR FATHER’S IMAGE. He designed YOU with PURPOSE AND DESTINY!
  • Pursuit. I struggle in my spirit when I see so many of us trying to grab the attention of a man and clearly we don’t know how to go about it. Stop pursuing a man, for if he wants you – – allow him to come to you. You can stand strong and let him figure out what he wants. If you chase NOW trust me you will CHASE later. By nature men are hunters and love what they catch and many don’t mind having to work for that catch (you). If he doesn’t want to work, then sis I submit to you – is he truly worth your time, effort and your bounty (who you are). A warm bed at night does not equate to happiness or not being alone for a body is truly just that – a body. Stop EXPOSING YOURSELF FOR YOUR PURSUIT.
  • Intermission – Part 3. a.  – LOL  #WhenaWomanDigsAMan Sis, intimacy is deeper than sex and a kiss on the lips. Intimacy can be a kiss on the cheek. If that bro wants you make him work for it (you). If he wants you he will wait and work on himself. Please stop making excuses for these men, SMH! Did you check out WhenaWomanDigsAMan      WhenaManDigsAWoman ?
  • Spirit of Control. I know my dream last night was on point because it covered many issues of our discussion today. See sis, when we expose ourselves (spiritually and naturally) and go after things that we want, we open up doors for control issues to enter our lives. I’m not referring to careers and job offers Per Se. My point is when we HAVE to have something irregardless of others and the pursuit of things that are not healthy – that is when we create cracks in our spirits. Have you ever heard about Jezebel? Do you know how to identify her? Well she was a queen in the scriptures and was married to a very weak man. She had a spirit of control. In fact she once dressed up to seduce Jehu to get what she wanted.  II Kings 9 Seduction is an art but the goal is to continue to seduce YOUR husband NOT a lover. Stop trying to control your atmosphere, that is God’s job, NOT yours and it’s based upon your submission to HIM for YOU are made in HIS IMAGE not a man’s.

Sis, if you are not sure how your pic looks, stop and ask somebody. Ask a strong male figure in your life and ask him what he sees. If he is not astute in these areas, ask a woman who looks deeper than the surface of reality. The key to understanding yourself is to ask yourself your motive(s) as to why you do what you do and more importantly what is the message you are conveying to the world about YOUR IMAGE.

Prayerfully, Sis I’ve left you with some information for you to ponder on as you approach your next season of clarity. I speak increase and peace and bind the spirits of confusion in your atmosphere


September 2, 2012

8:31 AM


  1. Love this BEO!!!!!!!

  2. Lovin this BEO!

  3. MY MORNDAY ,,HI TOO MY FRIENDS BE BLESSET IN THE LORD,,,,SIS DOT…………………………………….“What a glorious Lord! He who daily bears our burdens also gives us our salvation” Psalm 68:19

    Did it ever occur to you that you are disobeying God when you carry your own burdens, when you are worried, frustrated and confused over circumstances? That is exactly what God’s Word says.

    In 1 Peter 5:7, God gives a specific command to His children, “Cast…all your cares upon Him; for He careth for you“. Not to cast all of one’s cares upon the Lord is to disobey Him and to deny oneself that supernatural walk with God among men.

    Is it not logical to believe that He who loved us so much that He was willing to give His only begotten Son would also be faithful to keep His promise to bear our burdens daily?

    As the psalmist so aptly states, the Lord bears our burdens on a daily basis for the believer, the day will never come when God fails to carry our load, to strengthen us, to impart power to us through His indwelling Holy Spirit – if we but ask.

    Marvel of marvels, the psalmist points out, our heavenly Father not only is our great burden-bearer; He is also the very one who gives us our salvation and the assurance of eternal life. How could anyone ask for more!

    With the sure knowledge that our sins are forgiven (salvation) and the assurance that He knows all about every burden we face – more important, He bears them for us – our lives should reflect honor and glory to Him by the way in which we share His blessings and the message of His great love with others.

    Provision for the supernatural life is promised in the Old Testament as well as the New, as evidenced by this glorious promise in the Psalms

Leave a Comment