Bee’s Wisdom Hive – – I am a Woman of Possibilities

Sis, can I drop some words into your spirit? We as women are powerful when we are on one accord and standing in God’s presence and His mission and call on our lives. That is when we are truly validated as the daughter He has called us to be…then and ONLY THEN are WE a true Queen.

Good Morning Loves!

I woke up with “I am a woman of possibilities” in my spirit at 5 something this am. Whew! I put a quick search in the internet to discover there is quite a bit of information.  Now mind you, I’ve never read a book or heard of a song regarding this concept. Therefore, I know my information is downloaded from above. I’m the human PC while my Father (God) is the MASTER  hardware designer and software installer.

Here, let me share some of my early am thoughts that were running through this brain of mine, LOL!

I am a woman of strength!

I am a woman of power and I am determined to become my best.

I refuse to do inherent drama and I refuse to allow others to distract me from reaching my goal.

I’ve been to hell and back yet by God’s grace I am still here.

Thus, that means my assignments are NOT over; and from this point forward my focus is clear.

Sis, I’ve learned some dear lessons over the past few years. One is, NOT everyone is in your corner and another is, some people are in your life to distract you. Another key component is, one must always examine their OWN behavior regarding every aspect of their life. Here’s what I mean, examine ‘YOU’, the people around you, how they affect and or effect you and your interactions with them. At one point in my life I had to learn to put up some boundaries. It didn’t mean certain people were put out of my life but I quickly learned who was manipulative and who actually cared about me. Sometimes, even the one’s who care the most about you still have the ability to hurt you deeply. This is where unconditional love comes into play, but hey it doesn’t mean I have to handle you with kid gloves OR allow you continued access into areas that might still be painful for ME!

See healing is often an ongoing process in life. I had to learn that there is only ONE true healer and quickly realized it is HE who allowed me the continued freedom to grow in spite of the recessed pain. I am at a place in life where I pay attention to the signs and people around me. If I determine someone or something is hindering my growth that is the warning bell to handle the issue appropriately. Sometimes it means walking away. Sometimes it means a person must be cut off and sometimes that happens without a conversation. In my head they’ve been placed in a certain container or genre, LOL! Let me keep it 100! Life is too short to allow folk to distract you from YOUR goals and destiny! Don’t allow anyone to use you unnecessarily! We are always to be meek and humble, but stupid is NOT part of that process, LOL!

Girl, please…I’m even to a point where there were times a bro got cut off and he never even knew what hit him, LOL! See this is the ticket, no man can do to you unless YOU allow it and you must always take ownership of your behavior as I mentioned above. I love the bro’s, but let’s be real, not everyone is HEALTHY FOR US OR MEANS US ANY GOOD! The question becomes, “How can you tell?” Can I share a secret? Shhh…come closer…I learned to ask! Yes, it’s that simple – – ask your Father. It is He who created you and it is He who knows you best! Dang, I’m thinking of some (male) assignments He had placed on me in the past, but Sis, that’s just what it was an assignment. It wasn’t permanent! Some of us are walking into situations that were only deemed for a season and we ended up making it permanent. Seasons of Opportunities must be clarified (click on the purple link to read the blog).

Even now Loves, I’m assessing THIS season of my life and I encourage YOU to do the same. Ask and it shall be given, seek and ye shall find but the key is aligning yourself up in the spirit so your life can flow in the right direction in the natural.  Matthew 6:33  http://bible.cc/matthew/6-33.htm

Love ya sis and BE BLESSED until we meet again…My prayers are with you Queen and remember to watch your tone, not just with men but with everyone you interact with on a daily basis for you never know what doors you might OPEN OR CLOSE based on your communication skills.

Belinda

3/27/13

6:18 am

Comments

  1. Good morning, this is the first time I have checked out your page. What a delightful adventure. Keep up the good work (may I call you Queen Bee). Have a blessed day 🙂

  2. Adrienne says:

    Gosh, this hit home hard. Being that this is an area I’m struggling in as we speak, but thanks for your uplifting words!

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