Bee’s Wisdom Hive – Am I HIS MISSING RIB? Divine Connection Part II

Sis, can I drop some words into your spirit? We as women are powerful when we are on one accord and standing in God’s presence and His mission and call on our lives. That is when we are truly validated as the daughter He has called us to be…then and ONLY THEN are WE a true Queen.

Come here Sis, can I talk to you?  This title just dropped in my spirit a few minutes ago. I don’t want to bore you but leave you with a few thoughts as you proceed along in life on your Love Journey. Did you miss Divine Connection Part I by one of my featured author’s, Andrea Jenkins? If so, click here and  Divine Connection  will open in a new window.

Are you ready sis? Pay close attention because these concepts are straight and quick and true to form of Queen Bee’s stingers, LOL

For many of us when we meet a bro we are looking to see what WE can get out of the interaction if we choose to hook-up with him. Some of us are actually man-eaters (that’s another blog – stay tuned) and are willing to mess a bro up just for our own personal gain. However I KNOW the ladies reading THIS BLOG that CONCEPT doesn’t APPLY TO US (this includes me ;p)! We all need just a bit of help in letting go of our selfish concepts. Thus, we are going to call this Queen Bee’s ADJUSTMENT CONCEPT. Today’s concept is short and we will continue to address Divine Connections in the future.

  1. Sis, here’s the first question you must ask yourself. Does that bro have a vision? Either he is doing his thing in life be that ministry or business. If he’s here, now you must ask yourself how can you MESH (an intertwining of spiritual components) and ADJUST (meet what he needs as he meets yours and filling the love tank) around him. Disclaimer, remember woman was made for man; it’s NOT the other way around (one of QB’s mantras).
    1. If he HAS NO VISION – sis YOU cannot give him one. I suggest you keep it moving.

Unfortunately, there are many ladies who attempt to snag EVERY brother they meet. Sis, that is NOT a good look for any Queen. OK, I understand the attraction (if that applies to you) but seriously? This tells me that there is some healing in your inner core that needs to take place. I’ve met a lot of brother’s in my life time and trust a sis, there were few that I was attracted to on a deeper level; and those I showed interested towards either had substance or serious potential.  Throughout my life God was teaching me I could adjust to almost any type of man; BUT I also had to learn that there were consequences because NOT every man was in position to lead and guide me. More importantly, I encountered bro’s who sought to manipulate my gifts as well as me.

Next time we’ll talk about when you’re his rib but you want to hit him over the head with a bone, LOL!!!

Possibly, I might add the concept of men not initially seeing us as wife material. Boaz had to prepare himself in regards to Ruth. I know many of us read fairy tales growing up, but real life determines we must make REAL CHOICES and fantasy only opens spiritual doors.

Ladies, keep this mantra in YOUR head – Lord I want A DIVINE CONNECTION!!!

Love ya sis and BE BLESSED until we meet again…My prayers are with you Queen and remember to watch your tone, not just with men but with everyone you interact with on a daily basis for you never know what doors you might OPEN OR CLOSE based on your communication skills.


10/23/12 6:06 AM

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